Marriage Glue

Alright so I know everyone’s been talking about it. That if youre 19 years old and you still haven’t had sex that’s you’re not “cool” and people will peer pressure you into doing so. But dont conform to these worldly things because you shouldn’t have sex before marriage. I honestly don’t see what the point is. You want to do it because it feels good? But it’d be SO much better when you do it with your husband/wife.

Matthew 5:28 
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a women lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

That scripture to me is very powerful. You can see how God takes sex seriously. Because sex IS sticky. If you allow yourself to bond physically with several people during your dating years, you’ll diminish the power of the bond between you and your future spouse.

Looking around at what is shown on tv, played on the radio and talked about amongst people, it shows that our society is based on sex. Most relationships are based on sex. You can’t just think “oh I’m just going to make pig with my boyfriend” or “were just cuddling, we’re not going to go that far” and think that NOTHING is going to happen. Chances are something WILL happen. And trust me you don’t want to be that person regretting what you did and carrying all the emotional baggage with you.

Now I’m not saying that God doesnt want us to have sex because He created it. But, He wants us to have it when we are married with our husband or wife.

1 Corinthians 6:16-17
Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said “the two will become one flesh”

This verse is another one that really gets to me. Sex is not just a physical thing. It is spiritual too. When you have sex with someone you both become one. That is why you’re supposed to only have sex when you’re married.

The best thing to do and what I am doing is waiting, saving myself until marriage. I know people say “waiting until youre married is worthless, do you really think your husband is going to wait for you?” and this is we’re you say “yes because he has me praying for him”

God has a plan and a purpose for you guys. Trust me waiting for the right person and until your married is going to be SOOO much better and worth the wait!! It’s not “cool” to have sex with so many people. When I find out that someone who I am interested in has already had sex it really isn’t a turn on to me. God is telling you to wait until you’re married to haw sex not because he’s being mean but because he loves you and wants to save you from all the emotional baggage that comes with having sex at such a young age.